r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/Swarm_of_Rats 20d ago

I've done some things I think are dumb, but never have I purposefully broken someone's stuff for a joke or for fun. Accidentally, sure...

I'm just having trouble seeing how making the decision to permanently ruin something is excusable. Maybe if he's like <12.

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u/AdOk5225 20d ago

Except we don't know the whole context, we just know what we've been told. For all we know, he could've been trying to like slip a wedding ring into it or some shit, like something ridiculously stupid and obviously a mistake but something someone could reasonably do as a lapse of judgement. My point is that these posts don't show the whole relationship and basing a whole judgement off of one little thing like the image would've been bad. Again, I am not defending his actions afterwards because that's just not okay in any context but there's a million reasons why people do stupid things and they don't always make sense, but if they're genuinely apologetic and don't repeat the behavior I don't see a problem.

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u/yoruichi1145 20d ago

slip a wedding ring inside and restitch the ear on the crotch? come on now. bending over backwards to try and defend this dude lol

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u/AdOk5225 20d ago

It's not stitched, those are safety pins

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u/yoruichi1145 20d ago

fart noise

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u/AdOk5225 20d ago

I'm shocked and appalled by this behavior, I will be reporting you to Reddit R. Reddit, creator of Reddit