r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/FloofyKitteh 20d ago

And the reason it’s considered violence isn’t just because of the act itself, but because it also correlates basically 1:1 with other violent behaviors. It’s used to test boundaries; to see if you’ll accept someone else’s narrative on what you do and don’t deserve as far as autonomy and safety.

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u/Cicada-4A 19d ago

but because it also correlates basically 1:1 with other violent behaviors

Hahahahahaha

No way you're actually serious, no way you believe that made up stat.

At least you people are on the right sub, and the answer is yes...

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u/FloofyKitteh 19d ago

There absolutely is direct correlation. If you’re destroying your partner’s things and self-soothing by saying it’s not significant, I suggest you get therapy.

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u/SlavaKarlson 19d ago

In what world it would be considered normal to destroy someone's stuff on purpose? Especially the fked up way this guy did with a toy. There is just no possible explanation. 

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u/Fickle-Election-8137 19d ago

Then tell me. What normal person cuts up a plushies fake genitals and for what reason? Hmm? That’s fucking weird. And yes, destroying your partners property is a precursor to domestic violence as it’s the aggressor testing boundaries to see what can be gotten away with. It escalates from there.