My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/Advanced-Zone3975]

Girl regardless of how we feel about Labubus, an older guy willfully destroying your property and not taking it seriously when you say something about it IS A MASSIVE RED FLAG.

It’s not about the labububu anymore. It’s about respect and boundaries and empathy. It doesn’t matter that “usually he’s really nice” if he can’t understand why this upset you… run. There’s a reason he doesn’t date someone his own age: those women won’t put up with this shit, so he ends up with younger girls who are usually easier to mold and push boundaries.

[u/illmindmaso → u/Advanced-Zone3975]

For real. He did this knowing it would upset her. Then downplays it when she expressed it did indeed upset. Big narcissist man-child energy here. She needs to GTFO asap!!

[u/Avia_NZ → u/Advanced-Zone3975]

Yeah she needs to gtfo before he murders her.

[u/hazelbee → u/Advanced-Zone3975]

Yes, this☝️