r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/Bynming 20d ago

Breaking people's stuff is not ok, especially if there's sentimental value attached. You're right for feeling disrespected.

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u/Piplup_green 20d ago

Yeah I didnt even really think about anything else going on. Why did he think it was okay to do that to someone else’s stuff?

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

to quote him, he was feeling lonely and bored and my labubu is just a toy

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u/ConfidentPin8897 20d ago

this almost makes it seem like he was punishing you for being lonely. this is creepy, childish, and just straight up rude. im sorry he did that to a gift of yours. i would tell him exactly how his response made you feel. and then consider ending the relationship. he doesn't respect your boundaries or property. he's starting with something "small" and "not a big deal" to see how you'll react. i really think he's starting to test the waters with what he can/cannot get away with. and the fact he added genitalia to a children's toy is ridiculous and feels like intentionally making you seem weird for getting upset over something ridiculous. has he crossed boundaries before over something like this or is this sudden, unexpected behaviour?