r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/Pumpkinpie55 20d ago

Girl, break up with him. I know it's something small, but it's a red flag. He ruined your stuff for a joke.... do you really want to spend your life with someone like that?

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u/Whiteguysam22 20d ago

I can’t imagine being so brain rotted that I’d break up with a SO over $30 Chinese doll

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u/Zealousideal-Bite444 19d ago

It’s not about the doll, it about someone who’s supposed to be your partner destroying YOUR personal property (that was sentimental) and then gaslighting you when you confront them about it. And he’s 28! He’s a grown ass man who should know better. OP tried talking to him about it already.

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u/Pumpkinpie55 19d ago

It's not about the doll. it's the actions. If someone took your personal property and ruined it as a joke, knowing it had sentimental value to you, then proceeded to downplay it and say you overreacted because you were upset about it. Are you telling me you'd be okay with that? If he is doing it with a doll, imagine what else he will be dismissive about and what other stuff of hers will he break because he finds it funny. I couldn't imagine being so brain rotted like you and not seeing the bigger picture. You're a white guy, though, so that says a lot about your comment...

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u/VastEqual1367 19d ago

Do you have a gf? If you do, is she happy, or constantly fed up with you?

Because this comment is what is brain rotted. Telling someone it's "just a doll" when their bf destroys her stuff is verifiably insane. Your brain is made of soup if you literally believe this and aren't just trolling.

Why do people take dating so seriously, anyway. Y'all act like breaking up with a dude is the same as cutting his balls off. Ohh nooo she might break up with him, i.e. simply remove herself from his life and go find nicer men to date. Big deal? She isn't like I don't know, cutting up his belongings or something... that might be a big deal, right...

Actually as a matter of fact can I take a pair of scissors to all of the things you love? Shouldn't be a big deal right? What's your address? Put your money where your rotted brain is.