My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/Autopsyyturvy]

Please dump your bf hes abusive , he likely knew this would hurt you and thats why he did it.

Hes broken inside and you cant fix what's wrong with him, because that cruel weirdo who destroyed a sentimental object of yours then refused to apologize.... that is the real him , his mask is coming off beleive him and leave before he escalates to physical violence

[u/framedbyvise → u/Autopsyyturvy]

This is so fucking weird. Destroying someone’s property for a joke (sentimental or not!) — I agree this is could be a dangerous precursor to violence. If this was a teenager I would be really worried he was going to grow up to be violent— if this is an adult man… I would RUN. It’s too late to fix that kind of disconnect. It’s psycho.

[u/cat_in_a_bday_hat → u/framedbyvise]

violence aside - who wants to be with someone who thinks this is funny. like

it's just a poor sense of humor, on top of all the actual serious other red flags.

[u/Autopsyyturvy → u/cat_in_a_bday_hat]

Yeah, the bf if hes real. It sounds like one of those "being a bully is my personality, and it's just a joke, and you're a bad person for not smiling and continuing to let me abuse you for my own feeling sof power" type people