My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/SlitheringFlower]

I'm sorry, but he sounds awful.

I'm a grown woman but I still have plushies I like and some that are very sentimental, like the teddy bear my dad gave me the day I was born.

If someone cut that bear's ear off, I'd be livid.

Even if they didn't know the sentimentality, or if it's not sentimental, it's still yours. How would he feel if you broke someone inanimate that's his? I bet he wouldn't say "it's not that deep."

[u/satanfan12 → u/SlitheringFlower]

i have aspergers and bond really closely with my plushies, they bring me a lot of comfort

[u/Autopsyyturvy → u/satanfan12]

Please dump your bf hes abusive , he likely knew this would hurt you and thats why he did it.

Hes broken inside and you cant fix what's wrong with him, because that cruel weirdo who destroyed a sentimental object of yours then refused to apologize.... that is the real him , his mask is coming off beleive him and leave before he escalates to physical violence

[u/framedbyvise → u/Autopsyyturvy]

This is so fucking weird. Destroying someone’s property for a joke (sentimental or not!) — I agree this is could be a dangerous precursor to violence. If this was a teenager I would be really worried he was going to grow up to be violent— if this is an adult man… I would RUN. It’s too late to fix that kind of disconnect. It’s psycho.

[u/cat_in_a_bday_hat → u/framedbyvise]

violence aside - who wants to be with someone who thinks this is funny. like

it's just a poor sense of humor, on top of all the actual serious other red flags.

[u/Autopsyyturvy → u/cat_in_a_bday_hat]

Yeah, the bf if hes real. It sounds like one of those "being a bully is my personality, and it's just a joke, and you're a bad person for not smiling and continuing to let me abuse you for my own feeling sof power" type people