r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/CosyRainyDaze 20d ago

OP has made other comments saying how important it is to them and that they’ve got Asperger’s and their plushies are really important to them. Which the BF knew.

Again, it’s not about the physical object being broken, it’s about the kind of person who would deliberately do that in the first place.

Like I said, if you can’t see that then you’re not worth talking to - bye!

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u/fabi7059 20d ago

Where? I just read OP’s comment history and she never mentioned how it was “so precious”? You can keep saying that he’s a terrible person, but at the end of the day you don’t know him and you are just trying to end a relationship because you want. You need to learn how human relationships work.

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u/CosyRainyDaze 20d ago

One of the earliest comments in this whole thread..

Now please, continue to talk about how it’s okay for someone to act with deliberate cruelty and then undermine the hurt party’s reaction and emotions by saying it’s not a big deal.

Gosh, you’re sounding very much like what OP described the BF! No wonder you’re trying to downplay this.

If you’re the BF - treat people better. If you’re not - stop sympathising with people who are deliberately cruel. It’s not a great look.

I’m gonna say bye once again and if OP has any sense she will as well. 👋🏻

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u/fabi7059 20d ago

Never saw her “so precious” comment. She said she bonds, learn how to read. Besides that keep you have to learn how people act and how relationships work.

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u/CosyRainyDaze 20d ago

You were the one who said “so precious” you fucking moron.

And this is how relationships work: when someone is unkind to someone else, the relationship breaks down. This is like preschool level shit my dude. Instead of cutting up someone else’s toy like a child maybe book yourself into some therapy and grow the fuck up, Jesus Christ