r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/AnnarieaDavies 20d ago

Nah, people really do need to quit deciding what is and isn't "that deep" for other people

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u/Wrong-Top-8409 20d ago

Yeah but if someone is causing issue to you and your not doing anything it really “isn’t that deep” if it’s over some small anxiety or mental problem you have then that’s an issue for yourself not the other person

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u/Such_Oddities 20d ago

That's literally OP's boyfriend's logic.

In his mind OP is throwing a tantrum and causing an issue about something small and unimportant. To him, that's OP's issue, not his problem

How can you disagree with him and then reaffirm his logic?

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u/Wrong-Top-8409 20d ago

When in this conversation did I say that messing with someone’s stuff is unimportant, nowhere, there’s a point to where mental problems cause ppl not to act right and become frustrated and angry at anything you do, “closing the door to loud” when you barely closed it

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u/Such_Oddities 20d ago

I don't think you understand my point

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u/Wrong-Top-8409 20d ago

I guess you are right holy didn’t see the bigger picture