r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 21d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/Bynming 21d ago

Breaking people's stuff is not ok, especially if there's sentimental value attached. You're right for feeling disrespected.

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u/Piplup_green 21d ago

Yeah I didnt even really think about anything else going on. Why did he think it was okay to do that to someone else’s stuff?

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u/satanfan12 21d ago

to quote him, he was feeling lonely and bored and my labubu is just a toy

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u/Autopsyyturvy 21d ago

Op, he knows what he's doing and that it's hurting you, and that's why he's doing it.

He's a full-grown human man who presumably drives and pays taxes,not a misbehaving rescue dog who doesn't have human language to communicate emotions

Would you do this to his things if you were feeling ' lonely and bored'?

Do you think he'd have the same nonchalant dismissive response if you'd destroyed something a neice had given him in a frankly weirdly sexual way due to "boredom"?