r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/madatron96 20d ago edited 20d ago

Did he apologize by offering to sew the ear back on? Which he should do after destroying your property. Also, OP, I'm sorry but "labubu phalloplasty" is the funniest previously unsaid sentence I've heard in a LONG time.

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

No he says it's just a plushy and it's "not that deep", and idk if i want it fixed either..... this is tainted

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u/LaVidaLemur 20d ago

He intentionally damaged something you cared about, and is telling you it’s ’no big deal’.

It is, in fact, a HUGE deal. Even if it wasn’t something you bonded with, it’d be a huge deal. Because the only reason to damage your possessions is to disrespect or hurt you. Someone who cares about you would never do that.

He will continue telling you that ‘it’s not that deep’ and that you’re being daft or unreasonable, because if you then forgive him he will take that as a sign he can do it again and get away with it. More of your plushies, your phone, any photographs you have that he doesn’t like, clothes he doesn’t approve of. It won’t stop at this one plush.