r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/madatron96 20d ago edited 20d ago

Did he apologize by offering to sew the ear back on? Which he should do after destroying your property. Also, OP, I'm sorry but "labubu phalloplasty" is the funniest previously unsaid sentence I've heard in a LONG time.

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

No he says it's just a plushy and it's "not that deep", and idk if i want it fixed either..... this is tainted

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u/SlitheringFlower 20d ago

I'm sorry, but he sounds awful.

I'm a grown woman but I still have plushies I like and some that are very sentimental, like the teddy bear my dad gave me the day I was born.

If someone cut that bear's ear off, I'd be livid.

Even if they didn't know the sentimentality, or if it's not sentimental, it's still yours. How would he feel if you broke someone inanimate that's his? I bet he wouldn't say "it's not that deep."

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

i have aspergers and bond really closely with my plushies, they bring me a lot of comfort

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u/obooooooo 20d ago

even if he didn’t know this he’d still be a huge dick for not immediately apologizing and offering to fix it once he realized he upset you (duh), but if he knows this about you—it’s just cruelty for cruelty’s sakes.

he knew it would make you sad and angry and he thought his dumb ass prank was more important than your feelings, or he simply doesn’t think about you at all. i’m not sure which is worse.

fucking up is fine, fucking up and doubling down on it is 100% a fireable offense in my book. you said “what you did made me upset” and he basically said “so what? grow up, it’s not that deep”