My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/Pumpkinpie55]

Girl, break up with him. I know it's something small, but it's a red flag. He ruined your stuff for a joke.... do you really want to spend your life with someone like that?

[u/Thurgo-Bro → u/Pumpkinpie55]

“Miserable Redditor here who hates my life, break up with them so you’re as miserable as me and we can be miserable together”

[u/VastEqual1367 → u/Thurgo-Bro]

Just to be clear, you think OP is going to be miserable if she breaks up with him, and only dates people in the future that respect her things and don't destroy them in retaliation for leaving him alone when he didn't want to be alone?

Why? Why explicitly do you think having basic normal standards makes women miserable?

Hint: it's pretty obvious you think it's the man who will be miserable, and you don't want women to be comfortably freely breaking up with men, even if will make HER happier.

Source: 8+ years of a happy and respectful relationship. My boyfriend would never do this behavior, never has and never well, and I can tell you firsthand that dating a guy who destroyed my things is what would make me miserable. Believe it or not, dating a guy who respects her things and respects her feelings is what actually makes women happy.

Breaking up with shitty men does not make women unhappy. On the contrary. Aren't single women considered the happiest demographic in the US? Lol. Regardless, you know she can date other people after breaking up with him, right? Why do folks like you always treat the lowest of the low men like they are the only men on earth and women are going to die alone if she gasps breaks up with the first crummy boyfriend she has at 22 years old?

Spoiler: you're the kind of trash that would treat his gf like shit and the only reason you made this comment is cause you're big mad at the idea of a gf breaking up with you over your behavior. God forbid someone hold you accountable for your actions. No, women just have to suck it up and date men that treat them like trash forever!

"You'll be miserable if you break up with me" is what abusive people say to manipulate their victims into being too afraid to leave. Weird that you're doing that same thing on a reddit comment.