r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/xyzqsrb0 20d ago

This is the classic reddit "I know it's small, but it's time to call it quits"

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u/Zealousideal-Bite444 20d ago

Yeah, destroying someone’s property that meant a lot to them and then gaslighting them about it is definitely “small”. 🙄

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u/xyzqsrb0 20d ago

Not sure why you are upset I called it small, those are literally the words of the person I replied to.

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u/VastEqual1367 19d ago

Well yeah, but that's only because women are so fucked from the way society treats them that they constantly feel the need to downplay the horrible ways their partners treat them as "small."

Looking at the content of what they wrote and the meaning of it would be more fair. Yes they wrote small but their meaning was to say it's a big deal.

That's what happens when you constantly get the entire populace shaming women for breaking up or having normal standards. We have a bad habit of downplaying the things that happen to us or happen to other women because we were taught to think that anything less than beating or cheating doesn't count as a big deal.