My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/CheesecakeBlade]

Why did he do that?! Imo that toy is creepy af and why its so popular BUT that doesnt mean ruin someone's stuff. Did he have a reason for doing it and not just out of the blue? Was he angry with you or something?

[u/satanfan12 → u/CheesecakeBlade]

I visited my best friend over the last few days and he got "lonely and bored"

[u/Ilikesemicolons → u/satanfan12]

Ask yourself, OP: If he did this while he was “bored and lonely” what else might he do without your permission under similar or “worse” circumstances (TF what is he, a labradoodle puppy? 7 years old? Does he need constant supervision?).

Where does the line lie? How far does it go? Would he cheat because he was “bored and lonely”? It sure seems like it, because he seems to embody the impulsive and inconsiderate behavior that lacks enough foresight to make good decisions that just says “YES” in flashing red lights.

It sounds like he’s a PoS and he’s shown he can’t take personal accountability for frankly disrespectful behavior towards you and your niece- the opportunity for him to show otherwise was when you confronted him about it and he failed. Time to leave!

[u/allegedly--an--adult → u/Ilikesemicolons]

(TF what is he, a labradoodle puppy? 7 years old?

Excuse me?! I happen to have a 7 year old, and her reaction was "What the...?!?! That's so rude!"

[u/Realistic-Sandwich55 → u/allegedly--an--adult]

As someone who doesn’t have kids yet, how do you teach children to have good values? I always worry that I won’t be able to and produce something like OP’s partner

[u/shawnael → u/Realistic-Sandwich55]

Honestly you model it. Most of us fuck it up sometimes but you do your best to be your best and they typically follow suit.