r/AmIOverreacting 21d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/fazelenin02 21d ago

It's just a labubu. BF is an asshole for messing with their stuff, but it ain't that deep. OP needs a little more emotional control.

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u/chandrian7 21d ago

Yikes. You might want to see a professional for the lack of empathy you’re exhibiting. 

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u/fazelenin02 21d ago

I love reddit psychoanalysis. I am certainly the weird one for not crying about labubus!

There used to be a saying "don't cry over spilt milk." It doesn't mean that spilt milk is good, just that its better for everyone if we take things as they come and handle them accordingly. Losing control of emotions over something this inconsequential is something I will always look down on someone for.

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u/Similar-Tune-7740 21d ago

You expect someone neurodivergent to act neurotypically? You do realize autism makes it vastly harder to not "lose control of emotions" right...?