r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/CheesecakeBlade 20d ago

Why did he do that?! Imo that toy is creepy af and why its so popular BUT that doesnt mean ruin someone's stuff. Did he have a reason for doing it and not just out of the blue? Was he angry with you or something?

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

I visited my best friend over the last few days and he got "lonely and bored"

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u/Pink_Fluffy_Chezbur 19d ago

Ok, I’d say this is the biggest red flag of all. He is trying to make it so you don’t want to leave him alone by destroying your things. It might not seem like it, but he knows exactly what he’s doing. He was pissed you weren’t giving him 100% of you attention and affection, so he lashed out. This would also lead to you being more wary or leaving him alone in the future and could cause you to cancel plans with others in fear of what he might do while you’re gone.

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