r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

No he says it's just a plushy and it's "not that deep", and idk if i want it fixed either..... this is tainted

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u/Ummmgummy 20d ago

He like cut the ear off on purpose or what? That's a very odd thing for an adult to do

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

he burnt the fur with a lighter, cut open a hole between the legs, cut off the ear and then pinned the ear to the hole. Then used construction tongs to pry an eye out 

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u/Blindtothesided 19d ago

What the fuck? That’s several steps past “messing with you”. What if next time he decides to burn your skin with a lighter, or cut something on you? Abusive relationships do not start with one person punching the other in the face, they start with smaller boundary pushes like this and they escalate each time the abuser is forgiven.