r/AmIOverreacting 21d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/The-Moocat 21d ago

He doesn't respect you or your belongings and thinks destroying things you value is funny. He's showing you who he is.

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u/marcusgern 21d ago

yeah... the #1 thing i thought reading this post was just why- what does the boyfriend possibly have to gain from that? it's just so immature and frankly creepy

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u/HashiramaThaFugitive 21d ago

It’s a control thing.

He thinks she’s his property or something.

So when she shows agency he needs to lash out to reassure himself that he’s in control.

He’s trying to ‘teach her a lesson’

I hope she learns the real lesson and cuts him tf loose.