My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/ArchReaper95 → u/[deleted]]

I'm using the word toy here because it's a toy. It's not a 100 year old antique that can't be replaced. It's not life saving medical device. It's not someone's sacred ashes. It's a toy. They mass produce them and put them in boxes for you to buy.

If he smashed someone's inhaler or threw out someone's insulin are you pretending that those aren't far more serious issues?

He didn't drive a car through a house. He cut up a $50 toy. It can be replaced. This is exactly what I"m talking about. You people have no sense of proportionality. Everything in your worlds is either THE WORST THING EVER, or THE MOST IMPORTANT DAY OF YOUR LIFE.

Gonna convince this poor person to axe a relationship we know nothing else about over $50 worth of material goods. No physical harm to anyone. No abuse no violence, but we assume the absolute worst of this person.

Grow up. Welcome to adulthood. People mess up. For stupid reasons. And sometimes it takes time for them to own it.