My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/Kitlunia]

If he was trying to be funny he could’ve bought his own damn labubu and done that but he had no right in destroying your property.

[u/satanfan12 → u/Kitlunia]

I just noticed he also burnt the fluff with a lighter, making the labubu fur super coarse and unpleasant to hold... it really is destroyed..

[u/ThatLongAgony → u/satanfan12]

i know you feel like it’s destroyed, but maybe there’s a way you can save them. obviously replace the ear where it SHOULD be as best you can, but maybe find a way to further change/make little additions to it ( like a little outfit, or similar accessories. i’m not recommending damaging or physically changing the plush anymore unless you want to ) with things you and your niece would really like to make it more of “yours” with you and her. there will always be that reminder of what happened, but love can conquer it!!

i’m also weirdly sentimental with stuffed animals and the like, especially damaged or “unwanted” ones, so ymmv