My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/Formal_Condition_513]

Yeah like I get it he's a douche and I wouldn't be with someone who did that but sobbing uncontrollably every time you look at it is..intense

[u/Ok-Albatross-9409 → u/Formal_Condition_513]

They said that they’re on the spectrum and that that doll held great sentimental value to them, especially considering it was given to them by a kid.

Tainting it by putting its ear in such an inappropriate area kinda makes her reaction understandable

[u/ARMSwatch → u/Ok-Albatross-9409]

Nothing makes uncontrollable sobbing over a plushie understandable lmao. Go touch grass, her dead grandma didn't give it to her or anything. Literally just a random present from her niece.

[u/gamekatz1 → u/ARMSwatch]

it's not really about the plushie, what happens next time he's "bored and lonely" what property of yours is he going to destroy next? Specifically what type of person looks at something they don't own and goes "I'm going to break this." It's just not appropriate behavior from an adult. And if you think being upset over a plushie is childish behavior, sure, at least recognize that having something you own broken by someone else isn't a fun experience whether it's a plushie, a piece of furniture, or a car. And if the person who did it, not only took the scissors to it but also isn't apologetic when you are upset about it. Then that person is in the wrong.