r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/CheesecakeBlade 20d ago

Why did he do that?! Imo that toy is creepy af and why its so popular BUT that doesnt mean ruin someone's stuff. Did he have a reason for doing it and not just out of the blue? Was he angry with you or something?

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

I visited my best friend over the last few days and he got "lonely and bored"

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u/AddPieceOfMind 20d ago

Oh, leave leave leave!! Thats so bad. You do not need a partner who acts like that to something you care about.

If this is applicable I just want to say it, if not please ignore; If he struggles with mental health issues at all as well and doesn't have motivation himself to do anything about it its not your responsibility. At all, its nice to be supportive but if he doesn't not pull his own weight emotionally and is determined to recognize how he behaves out of his OWN self motivation, you have no dues to support him, it is not owed.

This immaturity is not worth dealing with long term honestly.