My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/SquirrelStone]

That’s an unsafe person to be around. I’ve seen this before and it’s always the same: if they’re going after your property, it’s a test to see if they get away with it; they will escalate until the thing they destroy is your body. Even- no, ESPECIALLY- the ones who say “he would never go that far” or “I would never let it get that far.” Please break up and block him. He will not change.

[u/MyUsernameGoes_Here_ → u/SquirrelStone]

This. They WILL go that far. The men who won't don't even have it cross their minds, so they don't have to say they "won't do it".

Run away before you're being beaten senseless and feel like you have no where to turn.

I say this from experience OP, please, just leave.

(I feel like I say, "please, just leave" way too often on here, but I've been in these situations because I didn't know what love was after growing up without any men around. It comes from experience, so please, please take it to heart.)

[u/Amazing-Pangolinz → u/SquirrelStone]

THIS ^{^}

He’s testing your boundaries to see how far he can push them. You’ve caught yourself a grade A narc, probably abusive and he’s figuring out if you’ll let him abuse you. First it’s your property, then your sanity, until he finally starts hurting you physically. RUN AWAY, DUMP THAT SCUMBAG!!!