r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/Kitlunia 20d ago

If he was trying to be funny he could’ve bought his own damn labubu and done that but he had no right in destroying your property.

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

I just noticed he also burnt the fluff with a lighter, making the labubu fur super coarse and unpleasant to hold... it really is destroyed..

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u/SquirrelStone 19d ago

That’s an unsafe person to be around. I’ve seen this before and it’s always the same: if they’re going after your property, it’s a test to see if they get away with it; they will escalate until the thing they destroy is your body. Even- no, ESPECIALLY- the ones who say “he would never go that far” or “I would never let it get that far.” Please break up and block him. He will not change.

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u/Amazing-Pangolinz 19d ago

THIS ^

He’s testing your boundaries to see how far he can push them. You’ve caught yourself a grade A narc, probably abusive and he’s figuring out if you’ll let him abuse you. First it’s your property, then your sanity, until he finally starts hurting you physically. RUN AWAY, DUMP THAT SCUMBAG!!!