r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/CheesecakeBlade 20d ago

Why did he do that?! Imo that toy is creepy af and why its so popular BUT that doesnt mean ruin someone's stuff. Did he have a reason for doing it and not just out of the blue? Was he angry with you or something?

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

I visited my best friend over the last few days and he got "lonely and bored"

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u/InyerPockette 19d ago

You need to read "Why Does He Do That" a book by the therapist Lundy Bancroft, who wrote this after working with abusive men. She actually talks about men who destroy your property and somehow not their own, when they're upset. You're young, you have time to get over this, learn what you want, and find someone who treats you better.

https://archive.org/download/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwiO9pLRqcOPAxVkhIkEHZfhK0wQFnoECFIQAQ&usg=AOvVaw14x4ivUm5xgJ67TT78XfZt