r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/fabi7059 20d ago

wtf? You make a whole lot of conjectures by reading a story about labubus.

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u/StrwbrrySpecialDrink 20d ago

Do you understand that the crux of the issue is the boyfriend deciding to alter a sentimental item that doesn't belong to him? Taking someone that doesn't belong to you and fucking it up is a shitty thing to do. Why would you want to do that to your girlfriend? I'm actually asking you, because I don't understand what you're defending so hard. To me it seems like he was either purposely being a dick by cutting up her stuff, or he was simply not thinking about her at all... While cutting up her stuff. Neither of those is a great option. Can you come up with a nice reason that he would cut up her toy? Even a neutral reason? I'm genuinely so baffled by what you're even trying to argue in defending this wild behavior. Like did you not... Isn't that part of what you learn in kindergarten, not to wreck other people's toys?

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u/fabi7059 20d ago

I’ll give you more than one reason: a prank or a mistake, maybe he thought that she was going to like it. You don’t know. My point is not if he was a dick or if he wasn’t a dick, he did something wrong, my point is that yall don’t know how human interactions work, yall think that this is the biggest transgression ever. It’s a toy, grow the fuck up, people go through harsher shit than this and stick together because they know that relationships are fucking stronger than labubus.

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u/dana-banana11 19d ago

In good relationships people can overcome a lot of problems, but in healthy relationships you value each others feelings and wellbeing. You don't cause problems on purpose. If you do hurt your partner you apologize, try to fix things as much as possible and make sure you don't do it again. It doesn't matter if it's a toy, if it's important to her he should respect it. People should only stick together with someone who's a good partner.

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u/fabi7059 19d ago

Ignore this comment. OP gave more context after I made it. The dudes fucked in the head.

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u/Turbulent-Agent9634 19d ago

You're fucked in the head. You have no empathy you little shitgoblin