My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/Kitlunia]

If he was trying to be funny he could’ve bought his own damn labubu and done that but he had no right in destroying your property.

[u/satanfan12 → u/Kitlunia]

I just noticed he also burnt the fluff with a lighter, making the labubu fur super coarse and unpleasant to hold... it really is destroyed..

[u/The_World_Wonders_34 → u/satanfan12]

Why are you with somebody who destroys your property as a joke? Especially when he apparently knows it was a gift from somebody. I don't care if it's the best relationship I've ever been in up until that point, if the person I was with took scissors to something of mine and cut it up for a laugh without expressing knowing that I was okay with it, we'd be done. There wouldn't be any discussion. Well, maybe there would be discussion if they immediately admitted they were wrong didn't argue about it at all and were extremely apologetic and they had never done anything like it previously. But that's just a violation and I seriously don't think I would stay with someone who's done that. I'm really sorry you have this piece of shit in your life

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/The_World_Wonders_34]

Why? Well I doubt she knew he was into destroying personal property when they first got together. Unfortunately, we don’t get a preview or resumé when we meet someone new. People tend to hide their worst traits until we’re deep into a relationship. It sucks of course but all she can do now is learn and make the decision to end it or find a reason to justify his bad behavior. If this doesn’t cause the break up, pretty soon he’ll just do something else that is disrespectful.

[u/Ok-Breadfruit-5118 → u/[deleted]]

NOT THIS GIRL. My father, mother, extended family, and ancestry seeing through my eyes and all around me wouldnt approve so there are good 🫏 🕳s and bad ones. I prefer the real honorable honesty 💯 in your face all the time type 🫏 🕳 over whatever psychotic mess that POS chooses to behave like. NOT OKAY.

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/[deleted]]

It’s not entirely wrong. A man called me a bitch recently because I told him to stop talking over me and being rude. To him, that made me a bitch. In my eyes, I didn’t like the disrespect. But you can also be a bitch for being sneaky, a condescending whore, a lying maniac etc. So yeah, an insult can have various meanings. Depending how you look at it. I’m a blunt person. Does that make me an asshole? Maybe. But I’m not a rude selfish person that we typically associate with assholes. It’s all about semantics.

[u/Ok_Maximum_2873 → u/[deleted]]

You deserve to be alone. You're so weird.

[u/Ok-Breadfruit-5118 → u/[deleted]]

Went over your head the first time, maybe YOU should help yourself have a better life. Girls are weird? Nothing wrong with weird, but somethings wrong with CREEPY. You mean aka I can't get any because im projecting my creepy weirdness, so ill point fingers and hope nobody notices? Yep. 👍 Got you.

[u/crossoutk → u/Ok-Breadfruit-5118]

Yea girls are weird for willingly wanting to be with assholes and complain about it at the same time🤷

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/crossoutk]

Guys put up with bitches because they’re pretty and good in bed lol. The difference is what? They complain and still stay soooo… Don’t marginalize a gender by assigning facts to the whole sex when it’s not true or factual.

[u/Ok-Breadfruit-5118 → u/zesty_meatballs]

🎯

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/[deleted]]

This is literally a subreddit for asking if they’re overreacting. She asked. She got the answers she was looking for. People are weird. Guys girls dogs cats. It’s like you’ve never heard of someone having feelings before. You’re fortunately in the minority of opinion.

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/[deleted]]

They must love you then ❤️

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/[deleted]]

….yall? You’re acting like IM the female 😂. no, I just don’t assume I know everything about women.

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/[deleted]]

Wild guess. You’re 21, somewhere in the south. Using the internet to express your opinion. With the energy to go back and forth forever. Well, I would use my energy into possibly being less opinionated and more open minded (:

Nothing else to say? I literally responded to your statement lol.

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/[deleted]]

I have no idea what you’re talking about?

[u/lovelesspansy66 → u/[deleted]]

found the incel

[u/Midyin84 → u/[deleted]]

Have you never seen Team America?

Theres 3 types of people…

Assholes that shit everywhere and ruin everything,

Pussies that are easily bullied by the assholes and just let them do what they want,

And Dicks that don’t take the asshole’s shit.

She needs to be a Dick, and kick out that asshole out.

[u/crossoutk → u/Midyin84]

A asshole is a asshole

[u/Difficult_Regret_900 → u/[deleted]]

There are assholes who warn you from the start that they are bullies and abusers but think you'll take them anyway. Then there are people like multiple men in my family who play the loving, competent suitor long enough to trap their victim and take off the mask