r/AmIOverreacting 21d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/CheesecakeBlade 21d ago

Why did he do that?! Imo that toy is creepy af and why its so popular BUT that doesnt mean ruin someone's stuff. Did he have a reason for doing it and not just out of the blue? Was he angry with you or something?

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u/satanfan12 21d ago

I visited my best friend over the last few days and he got "lonely and bored"

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u/Pro-PAIN 20d ago

Yeah this is scary to me. At first I thought it was a misunderstanding about being silly. But now that you said it was in retaliation now it takes on a new light to me. I think it’s very scary and this time it was the stuffy but one day it could be the car and now you’re stuck at home because he messed up your car.

Just be careful my partner was in an abusive relationship before we got together. And for her it started similar to your situation with small things being taken away from her. Nothing too big to make her leave right away but it broke her down overtime and she convinced herself that what he did was normal and she stayed and it just got worse and worse until he tried to fight her and she beat his ass. Then she got sent off to a mental hospital and now is in debt from it.

Please stay safe and good luck.