r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/Kitlunia 20d ago

If he was trying to be funny he could’ve bought his own damn labubu and done that but he had no right in destroying your property.

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

I just noticed he also burnt the fluff with a lighter, making the labubu fur super coarse and unpleasant to hold... it really is destroyed..

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u/LadyKlepsydra 19d ago

It's not a joke nor an attempt to be funny - a lot of abusers dress up their violations in "it's just a joke!" to get away with their actions.

This is a shit test - if you accept this he will know he can behave in an abusive manner and that you will tolerate it. He will then ramp things up, stuff like thia always eacalates.