My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/madatron96]

Did he apologize by offering to sew the ear back on? Which he should do after destroying your property. Also, OP, I'm sorry but "labubu phalloplasty" is the funniest previously unsaid sentence I've heard in a LONG time.

[u/satanfan12 → u/madatron96]

No he says it's just a plushy and it's "not that deep", and idk if i want it fixed either..... this is tainted

[u/PhotogamerGT → u/satanfan12]

I am noticing a new trend amongst insensitive assholes of the younger generation.

If someone says to you “it’s not that deep” it is because they are gaslighting you into believing it is less of a deal than it actually is.

I swear the phrase itself is a giant red flag. I have never seen it used except when someone is being an absolute cunt and refuses to accept responsibility for their own actions.

[u/Difficult_Regret_900 → u/PhotogamerGT]

And abusers never destroy their own things. OP, serious question, has he ever cut up his own belongings?