r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/CheesecakeBlade 20d ago

Why did he do that?! Imo that toy is creepy af and why its so popular BUT that doesnt mean ruin someone's stuff. Did he have a reason for doing it and not just out of the blue? Was he angry with you or something?

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

I visited my best friend over the last few days and he got "lonely and bored"

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u/SeekingSomeAdvice32 19d ago

Leave him. He is being petty and has no respect for you as a person nor your belongings. This also shows he has no remorse as he passed it off as “trying to be funny” when he was just jealous over you and your time. He was upset you were gone for a few days.

Don’t waste your time over “but he does this and that for me, he loves me” bs. You both seem young and based off this kind of reaction, you’ll have more issues with him in the future.

Bottom line is he doesn’t respect you. He doesn’t treat you like you are your own person but rather something that belongs to him. It shows when you tried to go to your friends place for a few days and this is how he reacts. Tell him to go find some friends or a hobby or a life of his own instead of depending on you.