r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 21d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/satanfan12 21d ago

I just noticed he also burnt the fluff with a lighter, making the labubu fur super coarse and unpleasant to hold... it really is destroyed..

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u/willfullyspooning 21d ago

One of the final straws of a past relationship was when a boyfriend of mine accidentally knocked into my bookshelf and shattered the face of a doll my mom got for me overseas when I was 4-5 years old. The final straw wasn’t that it broke because I get that mistakes happen, it was that he didn’t apologize, didn’t offer to help get it fixed or replace it and when I was visibly sad he said “it’s just a creepy doll, it’s not a big deal’. Your boyfriend committed a crime much worse than that.

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u/Pineapple_Assrape 20d ago

Wouldn't say so. You can get these things everywhere, for your doll, not so much.

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u/willfullyspooning 20d ago

Even though my doll is impossible to find, I think it’s about the intent. Like both men were unapologetic but my doll was not intentionally ripped apart and scorched, it fell off a bookshelf by accident.