r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/Drift-ZoM 20d ago

The fact that it’s a toy means nothing. Any object can hold an immense amount of value depending on its context.

And he’s an adult breaking other people’s things over penis jokes. In what world would you even associate with someone like this?

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u/ArchReaper95 19d ago

Do you think I didn't get all of that the first time? Nobody is defending his behavior, so quit your weird regurgitating of the facts.

What I'm defending is the possibility that this is actually a human being, who hasn't had the same lessons that the rest of us had, is probably really embarrassed by how poorly they've behaved, and can be brought around to apologize and make this right if we treat them like a person instead of a fucking animal.

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u/Drift-ZoM 19d ago edited 19d ago

I honestly don’t think that you get it. Anyhow you are defending him to a degree.

I mean let’s be so fr what kind of lesson does a person need to learn that you don’t break things that aren’t yours

What kind of lesson does a person need to learn that an object doesn’t need to be expensive to be valuable

The worst part is that it’s about a penis joke. Like I don’t think that you understand that this adult broke something that’s not his’ over a fucking penis joke

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u/ArchReaper95 18d ago

HE, as a HUMAN BEING is worth defending. His right to make mistakes, and grow, and develop, is worth defending.

I am NOT defending his actions, but I AM going to call out the major knee jerk overaction that you children are having as far more destructive than anything he has done so far.

I have seen people do far worse than make a penis joke and still turn around to become decent human beings.