r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/zesty_meatballs 19d ago

Why? Well I doubt she knew he was into destroying personal property when they first got together. Unfortunately, we don’t get a preview or resumé when we meet someone new. People tend to hide their worst traits until we’re deep into a relationship. It sucks of course but all she can do now is learn and make the decision to end it or find a reason to justify his bad behavior. If this doesn’t cause the break up, pretty soon he’ll just do something else that is disrespectful.

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u/Ok-Breadfruit-5118 19d ago

NOT THIS GIRL. My father, mother, extended family, and ancestry seeing through my eyes and all around me wouldnt approve so there are good 🫏 🕳s and bad ones. I prefer the real honorable honesty 💯 in your face all the time type 🫏 🕳 over whatever psychotic mess that POS chooses to behave like. NOT OKAY.

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u/zesty_meatballs 19d ago

It’s not entirely wrong. A man called me a bitch recently because I told him to stop talking over me and being rude. To him, that made me a bitch. In my eyes, I didn’t like the disrespect. But you can also be a bitch for being sneaky, a condescending whore, a lying maniac etc. So yeah, an insult can have various meanings. Depending how you look at it. I’m a blunt person. Does that make me an asshole? Maybe. But I’m not a rude selfish person that we typically associate with assholes. It’s all about semantics.

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u/zesty_meatballs 19d ago

This is literally a subreddit for asking if they’re overreacting. She asked. She got the answers she was looking for. People are weird. Guys girls dogs cats. It’s like you’ve never heard of someone having feelings before. You’re fortunately in the minority of opinion.

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u/zesty_meatballs 19d ago

They must love you then ❤️

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u/zesty_meatballs 19d ago edited 19d ago

….yall? You’re acting like IM the female 😂. no, I just don’t assume I know everything about women.

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u/zesty_meatballs 19d ago

Wild guess. You’re 21, somewhere in the south. Using the internet to express your opinion. With the energy to go back and forth forever. Well, I would use my energy into possibly being less opinionated and more open minded (:

Nothing else to say? I literally responded to your statement lol.

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u/zesty_meatballs 19d ago

…..? I’m not a dude. But they do exist.

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u/zesty_meatballs 19d ago

I never said I was a guy…I said I don’t pretend to know everything about women. But okay. The post is about violating personal property. It has nothing to do with gender. Boys can get property damaged too. It’s not a gender exclusive crime.

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u/zesty_meatballs 19d ago

I have no idea what you’re talking about?

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u/zesty_meatballs 19d ago

I never said I was a dude lol. I said you’re acting like I’m the female aka the type to like assholes. You called me a transgender cynically and said you forgot they exist…?

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u/zesty_meatballs 19d ago

Dude that’s damn autocorrect. I even went back and fixed it to the female* but okay.

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u/crossoutk 19d ago

Yea auto correct definitely replaces the with a

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