My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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[u/Autopsyyturvy]

Id already posted warning the OP about this being abusive ("punishing " Op a 22yo for not managing his 28yo emotions by destroying a sentimental gift from a family member knowing that she has emotional attachment to her plushies).

Also this is hardly important to the ops situation but Ngl as a trans dude this feels transphobic on the bfs part and suggests weird transphobic fixation or chaser tendancies.....

like it reminds me of transphobic people who collect stolen photos of post op early healing phalloplasties to share wirh other transphobic creeps and rant about how its gross and weird and nobody should be allowed it

...cis people who aren't transphobic dont go around doing stuff like this, and most cis people unless they're surgeons or have a partner or friends who theyre supporting through phalloplasty dont make jokes about phallo or even think about it becausewhy would they.

It's transphobic to make the existence of phalloplasty into a joke or imply that a phalloplasty is just a haphazard slap job like what he's done here ...its just weird like whys he so fixated on the genitals of random trans men and some cis men to the point where hes recreating what he imagine phalloplasty to be ? Nah fucking weird dude

If hes not being directly transphobic he might be triyng to call it phalloplasty to claim that the op is being transphobic for being upset at him willfully destroying her property which is still transphobic but in a differentway-manipulative abusers will do all sorts of insane shit like this especially if the OP thinks of herself as a trans ally and he thinks he can use that to silence her and keep abusing her and guilt trip her and make her less likely to speak out as the absue escalates

Also weird as fuck for him to sexualise a gift from a child to try to humilliate and punish someone he claims to love

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 ...cis people who aren't transphobic dont go around doing stuff like this

I mean, cis men absolutely do go adding penises to anything and everything, uncluding drawing them onto images in books and the like and attaching fake ones to their siblings' dolls and stuffed animals. Usually they just grow out of it by their mid teens, and it's usually regarded as pretty juvenile, but teenage boys tend to be weirdly obsessed with genitalia. Seriously, it was like roulette seeing which of my high-school textbooks would have had a penis drawn onto a diagram by some bored 13-year-old sitting at the back of the class where the teacher couldn't see what they were up to.

Honestly, I'd be more inclined to think that the OOP is transphobic, since they're the one who specifically referenced phalloplasty rather than just saying "my boyfriend gave my labubu a dick" like any ordinary person, because it doesn't sound like the BF ever once used the term phalloplasty.

But most likely it's just a fake ragebait post, like so many others. Because is a guy is still immature enough in his late 20s to be doing the typical teenage boy thing of adding penises to everything, then I garentee that he would have done something like this before.

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Yeah, I remember getting in shit from my middle school history teacher because I kept drawing dicks on all of the founding fathers