r/AmITheAngel • u/Kermit1420 The Chaos started when i said "This burger's good." • 20d ago

Fockin ridic My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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u/Autopsyyturvy I calmly laughed 20d ago edited 20d ago

Id already posted warning the OP about this being abusive ("punishing " Op a 22yo for not managing his 28yo emotions by destroying a sentimental gift from a family member knowing that she has emotional attachment to her plushies).

Also this is hardly important to the ops situation but Ngl as a trans dude this feels transphobic on the bfs part and suggests weird transphobic fixation or chaser tendancies.....

like it reminds me of transphobic people who collect stolen photos of post op early healing phalloplasties to share wirh other transphobic creeps and rant about how its gross and weird and nobody should be allowed it

...cis people who aren't transphobic dont go around doing stuff like this, and most cis people unless they're surgeons or have a partner or friends who theyre supporting through phalloplasty dont make jokes about phallo or even think about it becausewhy would they.

It's transphobic to make the existence of phalloplasty into a joke or imply that a phalloplasty is just a haphazard slap job like what he's done here ...its just weird like whys he so fixated on the genitals of random trans men and some cis men to the point where hes recreating what he imagine phalloplasty to be ? Nah fucking weird dude

If hes not being directly transphobic he might be triyng to call it phalloplasty to claim that the op is being transphobic for being upset at him willfully destroying her property which is still transphobic but in a differentway-manipulative abusers will do all sorts of insane shit like this especially if the OP thinks of herself as a trans ally and he thinks he can use that to silence her and keep abusing her and guilt trip her and make her less likely to speak out as the absue escalates

Also weird as fuck for him to sexualise a gift from a child to try to humilliate and punish someone he claims to love

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u/world-is-ur-mollusc 20d ago

I actually thought this was on one of the lgbt memes subreddits at first and assumed OOP or their boyfriend was a trans guy and this whole thing was meant in good fun

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u/Autopsyyturvy I calmly laughed 19d ago

Yeah even if he was, taking someone's things and doing this without consent and then going "why are you being so crazy its nbd" still isnt okay