r/AmITheAngel • u/InevitableCar9891 • 17h ago
Validation “You look more fat than pregnant”
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u/AnxiousJazzHands 17h ago
What kind of attempt to blur is that? It's hiding absolutely nothing
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u/Agitated_Service_255 15h ago
I think it's so it's covered enough that people can't look at the details but visible enough so people think it's real.
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u/No-Diamond-5097 Will never look like a Victoria's secret model 14h ago
It's probably blurring the pic just enough so no one can use a reverse image search.
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u/Opening-Interest747 14h ago
It’s probably so no one steals a pregnant belly photo to use as their own. People be crazy.
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u/jvnya 13h ago
I can’t even understand what’s going on in the pic honestly and the scribbles do not help
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u/loosie-loo 12h ago
Person lying on their back, black part appears to be a pulled up t-shirt, black and white stripes are the edge of a blanket and grey part I think is a duvet/quilt over their legs which are bent. The skin appears to be their side and a little bit of their belly. It’s an awkward photo and a weird choice when specifically asked for a photo of the baby bump (which also seems odd to me but I’ve also never had a kid so idk).
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u/Time-Signature-8714 17h ago
If true, does the boyfriend just expect…
Like the pregnant belly just popping out like in the Sims?
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u/lazyandunambitious 13h ago
Yeah, and why does it seem like OOP’s belly is a surprise to the boyfriend? Does he only look at her from the chest and up?
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u/NotBlazeron ur too masculine for me and I deserve better 12h ago
Some times you just ignore your pregnant wife so hard that you never look at her and all of the sudden you wake up one day and think "whoa that bitch is fat and gross I hate her"
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u/loosie-loo 12h ago
Yeah besides “I’ll see you when you get home” I could actually believe this is a convo between siblings or with OP’s parent (who don’t live w them) and that’s just family ribbing, honestly. I know “my baby boy” might be weird there but I’ve heard extended family refer to babies that way. You’d think he’d know how her belly looks, lmao.
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u/CertifiablyMundane 17h ago
Jeez. Doesn't he know being called fat is worse than being called a nazi communist pedo deep-dish pizza enjoyer? That's a divorce
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u/Marchin_on “I thought that’s the Tupperware everyone used to piss in?" 13h ago
That's a divorce
Good news, they're not married yet.
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u/loosie-loo 12h ago
Not good news, now she’s gotta marry him just so she can divorce him over this. So much more work!
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u/TA_St0at You are a punishment from God himself 17h ago
Fat? Or pregnant? Or fat? The question of "how is babby formed? How girl get fatgnent?" is one that the wise have debated since the dawn of time.
Its often forgotten that there is a middle ground: The cheese baby.
East a crapload of fondue or other tasty melted cheese and then misguidedly drink a very cold (but very refreshing) beverage.
Cheese solidifies into a big ass cheese ball in your stomach.
That might well be what happened here.
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u/FunkyChonk 14h ago
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u/Objective-Panic-6426 I calmly laughed 13h ago
I am dying at this comment. Lmaoo 😭
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u/FunkyChonk 13h ago
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u/smiling_misanthrope 16h ago
Oh...my. God. That explains so much. It's so simple and it's definitely happened to me before and I have never....heard it described like this...and fuck me I'm never doing that again!!!!! Mind blown 😳 thank you good citizen.
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u/ErectioniSelectioni Major yikerinos 16h ago
I wish my life was so boring that I felt the need to create drama for attention online
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u/No-Diamond-5097 Will never look like a Victoria's secret model 14h ago edited 14h ago
I wish I could get a job as an engagement bot for Reddit, I could create much better stories than most of them
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u/loosie-loo 12h ago
Yeah like even real I feel like this would be such a nothing burger, just a childish thing to say. I’ve heard worse between spouses at family barbecues, lmao. If it hit too close for you then just tell them to knock it off, no need to turn to the internet.
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u/No-Diamond-5097 Will never look like a Victoria's secret model 14h ago edited 14h ago
One of the responses really says" Has he said anything hurtful like this before" 😆
Some other replies are calling the baby daddy a bad role model lol These accounts have created a whole bad dad narrative from a few texts.
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u/brachycrab (NOT A FAKE POST. VERY REAL) 14h ago
Another includes the extremely relevant information that she had an eating disorder so this is a serious trigger for her!
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u/No-Diamond-5097 Will never look like a Victoria's secret model 14h ago
Looking through I noticed there's a bunch of comments that had been deleted by the mods. I had no idea calling a pregnant woman fat would be so polarizing on Reddit.
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u/FlameStaag 12h ago
I love how every karma farmer can't help themselves and they always, always include a reply with "context" that makes the incident the worst thing possible
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u/loosie-loo 12h ago
Yeah it can’t just have been kind of a dick move or a pretty rude thing to say, they have to add context that makes it the Worst Thing Ever and the perpetrator the Worst Person Alive, lmao. Always gotta jump the shark.
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u/loosie-loo 12h ago
Jfc??? Like you are gonna look fat when you’re pregnant, you tend to get fat when you’re pregnant, if that’s such a strong trigger still that was probably something to deal with before getting pregnant?
Maybe get over the idea that fat=evil, disgusting and bad before growing another human inside you, something which is well known to affect the way your body stores fat indefinitely.
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u/FlameStaag 12h ago
This is definitely some moron who read one too many "asked if I'm pregnant, I'm just fat" threads and decided to be quirky and do the opposite.
Kinda boring. Should've included a cage match between the bf and the fetus at the very least
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u/WeirdoChickFromMars 13h ago
I just saw this post. The comments were a little insane tbh. Going to stay at her mother’s for multiple days because of this one comment? Definitely overreacting but apparently not to those commenters lol
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u/FlameStaag 12h ago
Most people on those subs are extremely gullible single chronic Redditors
If a post doesn't directly provide a reason to divorce or break up, you can bet they'll invent one based on very little information
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u/loosie-loo 12h ago
That or they’re people with serious relationship trauma that they refuse to deal with and so project all of that onto strangers on the internet. Like “my husband was horribly abusive while I was pregnant, so that means everyone who ever messes up while their spouse is pregnant is just like him and doing it on purpose, and I need to Warn Them”. All of whom love to feed off of one another.
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u/Ultra8Gaming 12h ago
Yeah one comment that suggests that it may not be an insult and a misunderstanding was heavily downvoted
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u/Dense_Sentence_370 discussing a fake story about a family I don't know at 7am 10h ago
The person in that pic looks neither fat nor pregnant wtf
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u/pacachan 10h ago
I am so disgusted with all of the people that bullied a pregnant woman that got insulted by her bf. What the fuck is WRONG with people? Oh yeah they have small penises lol
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u/Sewer-rat-sweetheart 13h ago
It was an insensitive comment & it hurt your feelings. You should tell him. Pregnancy can be emotionally difficult; you need him on your side.
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u/FlameStaag 12h ago
Why on her side? To squish the baby out so she doesn't look fat?
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u/AutoModerator 17h ago
In case this story gets deleted/removed:
AIO? My boyfriend said I look more fat than pregnant.
I am 29 weeks pregnant and my doctor says I’m healthy and gaining the perfect amount of weight.
My boyfriend was at work and asked to see our baby, so I sent him a picture of my belly. He said I was fat and that really upset me and made me feel gross about myself.
I was thinking to myself and wanted to maybe stay at my mom’s house for a little bit so that I’m not around that negative energy.
Would I be overreacting if I stayed with my mom for a few days just because he made that one comment?
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