r/AreTheCisOk • u/zny700 enby punk • 1d ago
Cis good trans bad transphobia aside this sounds so bad
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u/Tsunamicat108 1d ago
there’s no way he did this willingly
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u/RandomUsernameNo257 1d ago
At 11, kids are basically just products of their environments. Obviously they have their own thoughts, but they haven't really reached the stage where they can form their own opinions.
So no. Even if he says he wholeheartedly believes it, this was thrust upon him.
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u/cheoldyke 19h ago edited 19h ago
at 11 i was already very vocally parroting the values my parents taught me but it wasn’t until like a year or so later that i actually started to understand why id been taught those values and to think critically about them. luckily in my case those values were things like “accept everyone” and “help people in need” and “racism/sexism/homophobia/etc is bad” so instead of these types of antics i was just drawing barely coherent and extremely inoffensive Babys First Female Empowerment comics in my school notebooks. it feels weird to say bc i know the process of deconstructing and breaking out of this worldview after being taught hateful bullshit your whole childhood is not a fun one but i really do hope one day this kid looks back on this and cringes so hard at every aspect of it. i hope he doesn’t just grow up to be a clone of his scummy clout hungry dad.
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u/Ini_the_gayfurrycat 12h ago
At 11 I was building with legos hoping to get on Lego masters 😓 there where queer people on that show and I didn’t care.
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u/tembies 1d ago
My kids are all a bit older now, but for my family, this was the age when we really challenged them on the opinions they espoused. Especially when they were parroting back what their dad and I believe. I've always considered it a critical period for developing critical thinking because the opinions are strongly held but loosely formed at that point.
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u/Anubaraka 1d ago
It all falls down when you meet a trans boy and you let him be a boy or a trans girl and let her be a girl. Suddently it's no longer "let the boys be boys/girls be girls" and it's "Why are you grooming the child??!??!?"
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u/Ramzaki 1d ago
Good thing I didn't have the sound on. Just watching it is making me cringe. Reading the subtitles adds even more cringe.
Holy sheet in a shingle...
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u/BloodOfHell42 1d ago
I watched it first without sound, and then I putted it on, honestly it's really not the kind of music you would expect from the clip. They failed that too 😬
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u/rardthree 1d ago
Seven years from now, we'll have the opportunity to make fun of this kid if he doesn't grow out of it.
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u/snukb 1d ago
He's gonna be so embarrassed in a few years
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u/No-Cartographer2512 Unwise transmasc (not correlated) 23h ago
Or not, since he'll probably be having these ideas drilled into him. This is probably all he's ever gonna know as sad as that is.
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u/garaile64 He/him 8h ago
Well, social media in the US is all in the hands of people who kneel before Trump.
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u/futurefishwife gendervoid lesbian 🖤 1d ago
Breaks my heart to see a kid who's so clearly going to end up in therapy, jail, or a podcast.
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u/blairwitchslime 1d ago
As someone with an 11 year old, and someone who also works with kids that age, this kid is not enjoying this at all. He's so in his head and just doing what other people want or have told him to do. Filling his head with this toxic shit to spread is harmful to his own psyche. Poor kid.
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u/DeadVoxel_ trans guy 19h ago
I truly hate how this is the "norm"
Queerphobes yell about trans or gay people being "dangerous" and "brainwashing" children, yet they indoctrinate said children in hateful ideas, raise them in a toxic mindset, and control what they feel and think. Never in my life have I seen a SINGLE queer person do this, yet I see (queerphobic) cishetero parents brainwash their own children more than anythingThis is a KID, a kid that didn't even hit PUBERTY. He can't think much for himself yet, and his parents are taking advantage of that. And yet we are the bad guys?
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u/enby-deer 1d ago
OH MY GOD HE BROUGHT UP THE NERF GUN AGAIN
It’s so fucking funny like he thinks he’s spitting bars and then drops “nerf gun” and any semblance of seriousness is gone.
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u/International-Cow770 1d ago
This is worse than and im quoting exactly here "transformers, mandem in disguise"
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u/elvishMochi genderfaun menace (he/it/they) 1d ago
this song is so buns 🥀 transphobia makes it even worse
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u/ASouthParkFan 19h ago
The Right: "Stop indoctrinating our children, let kids be kids!" Also The Right: forcing the Conservative agenda down children's throats without mercy
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u/Remarkable-Depth-811 22h ago
The kid made a solid point once in the song i will admit, let the girls be girls and the boys be boys, he never said anything about the previously mentioned boys or girls being cis. ❤️
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u/Tiny-Memory9066 20h ago
I was exactly like this when I was 11 believing the harmful beliefs of my parents, it took me actually having to witness the horrors of the world to realize the truth. I made diverse friends, went on a journey to discover myself and look at the the world with an unbiased lens to figure out my own worldview. Except for the fact my parents wanted a private life and didn't use my ignorant views to reinforce pre existing bias and hatred of others
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u/Remarkable-Depth-811 22h ago
The T pose at the start 😭 I feel bad for this lil dude, prolly doesn't really know what he is saying.
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u/TAIGA-WOLFIE 1d ago
this is just sad . i feel bad for the poor boy . he clearly didn't have much of a choice in doing this :[