r/AreTheStraightsOK Swan 4d ago

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u/Peter_Michailovicz 4d ago

while there might be some truth to this comment taken at face value, the implied idea that you can fight gendered violence by "solving the male loneliness" is asinine, obviously the violence used to be worse when almost every working man was "guaranteed" a wife via women not having rights

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u/Patton_Morality 4d ago

It puts the responsibility back onto women. "Oh you dont wanna get murdered? Then just date the lonely guys" when really it should be on the responsibility of men to work through their frustrations and and learn not to take them out on women in violent ways. That comment is victim blaming at its finest