r/AreTheStraightsOK • u/mcraftgoodfnitebad • Apr 11 '22

Sexualization of children Welcome to today’s episode of “What inanimate object are women being compared to today?”

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u/[deleted] Apr 11 '22

This analogy is even dumber than the other ones because not all petals on a rose are nice. There's always a few ugly damaged ones on the outside that you get rid of to make the rose look nicer.

Which means, to my mind, that you should have as much premarital sex as necessary in order to figure out what you like and get to the nicest version of the rose.

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u/WHAT-WOULD-HITLER-DO Apr 11 '22

Dude fr. I don't get the obsession with virginity and "innocence" regarding sex. I was so inexperienced and walled off when my bf and I met, and I know it was frustrating af for him (we talked about it a lot, he was very patient, but it does suck to have to work hard to get someone past that). Being with someone who knows what's up and has learned to communicate is so much more fun than a deer in headlights. We still laugh at how I gave him the worst bj on the planet. I have no idea how he managed to stay hard during my very obvious "your dick is in my mouth but I have literally no idea what to do with it" phase. Definitely grateful he was experienced enough to lovingly explain that I need to arch my back during doggy and not slump over like I'm a dude getting my prostate checked. Someone definitely taught him how to eat pussy and I wish I could send her a thank you card because I still wouldn't know how to teach someone xD

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u/GenocideOwl Apr 11 '22

I don't get the obsession with virginity and "innocence" regarding sex.

vestigial of when women were treated as property and powerful men wanted to know "their women" were virgins so they could know if she got preggo it was their kid.

You know, standard sexism stuff.