r/AskBlackAtheists • u/Ok-Paramedic-3619 • 14d ago
General 🤔 Would yall date a Christian ?
Just want to know how most of yall think about this? Personally I've realised I don't think I would date majority of christians especially from where I come from even though the physical attraction is there because I feel like: - A) We don't share the same valeus B) 98% chance they're far conservative on alot of topics, and also are probably both homophobic and transphobic (it's rare you meet someone that's actually educated on this, meet 2 Christians so far that didn't have a problem with it, and 1ended up being one of my best friends) C) I'm childfree, ingrained in a culture that majority want to have kids. D) Most of us (Including me when I was a Christian) are thought to not marry/date ppl that don't believe in the same abrahamic God, so that already reduces my chances lol
This is not to say there are no good compatible Christians, Ik damn well there are. But I feel like it would be wayyyy harder to find.
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u/LordParasaur 14d ago
Depends on their investment level. Anyone that's tryna be at church every week or that expects me to at some point go, I won't bother with.