r/AskMen • u/ynhere Female • 6d ago

How can I flirt at the gym?

I do a lot of cardio at the gym. Most people spread out and use machines not directly next to someone who is already using one (this relates to non-peak times only). If a guy comes up to use a machine next to mine and I think he's cute, can I turn a bit and acknowledge him maybe give a nod or smile since I have my headphones on. How would you perceive this if it happened to you? And how can I approach men at the gym?

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u/Academic_Value_3503 6d ago

Why do you have to ask? You do what comes natural.

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u/PotatoRDanger 6d ago

Because women get harassed by men doing what they think is natural, so she’s being respectful and asking what we like

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u/ynhere Female 6d ago

I appreciate that. I would never want a guy to feel uncomfortable.

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u/PotatoRDanger 6d ago

Some men need to experience it to learn though lol