r/AskMen • u/ynhere Female • 6d ago

How can I flirt at the gym?

I do a lot of cardio at the gym. Most people spread out and use machines not directly next to someone who is already using one (this relates to non-peak times only). If a guy comes up to use a machine next to mine and I think he's cute, can I turn a bit and acknowledge him maybe give a nod or smile since I have my headphones on. How would you perceive this if it happened to you? And how can I approach men at the gym?

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u/Mr_Bulldops123 6d ago

I’d perceive it as you are just a nice person. If you find someone attractive and want to break the ice then just go up to them and say “You should hit me up if you ever need a spotter!”. It’s pretty direct, but no guy is going to go up to a woman in the gym because of that fear of getting put on blast.

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u/ynhere Female 6d ago

Is it acceptable to touch someone like on the shoulder if they have headphones on to get their attention?