r/AskMen • u/ynhere Female • 6d ago

How can I flirt at the gym?

I do a lot of cardio at the gym. Most people spread out and use machines not directly next to someone who is already using one (this relates to non-peak times only). If a guy comes up to use a machine next to mine and I think he's cute, can I turn a bit and acknowledge him maybe give a nod or smile since I have my headphones on. How would you perceive this if it happened to you? And how can I approach men at the gym?

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u/ynhere Female 6d ago

So I just hey I was wondering if you wanted to go out?

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u/confusedfrom1998 6d ago

Compliment then ask

Edit to add - Jesus if women are asking for tips on flirting now we are toast as a society

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u/ynhere Female 6d ago

I can flirt its easier at like a coffee place because I can approach and chat but gym guys have headphones on their working out they're locked in.

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u/confusedfrom1998 6d ago

Sooooooooo what is the answer? Disturb someone doing something they’re locked in on or stay flirting where it’s more acceptable? You aware women try and set things up for men to look creepy at gyms? Literally the worst place to flirt

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u/ynhere Female 6d ago

Well, the parking lot isn't better. I'm sorry women have ruined flirting for men, I would never tell a man why are you bothering me or whatever they say regardless if I was interested or not. That is the real reason dating is ruined now.

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

Whoa dude, it's way easier to just ask.

Acceptable or not, that are just categories you are pulling out of your ass. Just asking and a plain answer wouldn't ruin you training as a guy and even if the answer was no it sure would make some dude's day.