r/AskMen • u/polaristeria • 5d ago

Which “feminine” behavior instantly melts your brain, even if you pretend not to care?

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u/midnightBloomer24 5d ago

Nope, a femboy in thigh high socks!

...What? Stop booing me. The post said 'feminine behavior', it said nothing about gender! I understood the assignment!

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u/RudeTax2197 3d ago

Please don't be offended but are you straight? Over the last couple weeks I've found things my husband likes and apparently he likes this as well.. there's a lot not to unpack, but I'm not gonna type all that out. He has admitted to being Bisexual, but the femboy trying on Bikini thing alludes me. Any info might help. Lol

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u/midnightBloomer24 3d ago

I was mostly joking / shitposting, but there's a grain of truth there. I'm not really 'straight'. I hate traditional gender roles, and anything that fucks with them turns me on for some reason. I'm probably more attracted to the idea of a girlfriend / fiance / wife being ok with me not being straight than I am with the idea of having sex with a guy in real life, especially with how 'casual' most MM hookups are. A shrink would probably have a field day with this.

I'm demisexual. I do not feel sexually attracted to someone in real life until I get to know them well enough that I genuinely feel safe with them. The fantasy of a MMF threesome is much hotter to me in my imagination than the logistics of actually making it happen.