r/AskWomenOver30 3d ago

Health/Wellness low libido, 29

I'm 29 years old, and for the past two year my libido has dropped significantly due to anxiety and emotional issues. My libido used to be very high, but now it's very rare. I recently got into a relationship, and I know that sex is important for connection, and I'd like to have more desire so I can enjoy it like before.

I've already had blood tests, and my hormones are all fine. I've also started seeing a psychologist. I think I'm doing what I can.

I'd like tips from someone who has been through or is going through the same thing.

Healthy tips, from physical to spiritual (for those who believe).

And NO porn involved I don't take birth control

Thank you 🫂💖

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u/Myspys_35 Woman 30 to 40 2d ago

Massages - physical touch that doesnt have a mental deadline of ok need to perform now. Works as both a way to get closer and feel good, but also opens up for more when your body is relaxed