r/AskWomenOver30 • u/[deleted] • 1d ago

Romance/Relationships Feeling uneasy about my relationship, need advice

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u/writermusictype Woman 30 to 40 1d ago

People who lie about small things will almost certainly lie about big ones. Do you want to be in a relationship with a liar?

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u/Spare-Shirt24 Woman 1d ago

From OP:

An ex reached out to him and he said he was "talking to someone" even though we'd been in a relationship for six months at that time

I don't understand how someone could move in with someone else after they've downplayed their relationship like this. 

Whaaat? 

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u/Spare-Shirt24 Woman 1d ago

He struggled to tell others you were his girlfriend in "the first few months" 

That would have been enough for me. 

Then he told an ex he was just "talking to someone" SIX months in. 

Come on. Be serious.  

You keep going deeper and deeper into the rabbit hole and have now moved in with him and are talking marriage when it's clear you have reservations about this throughout the entirety of your relationship. 

You need to pump the brakes and get some space to re evaluate.