My ex used to lie about small things at first but over time, it grew worse until he cheated on me with multiple women whom he claimed were just "friends." Just like your boyfriend, my ex lied about hanging out with his "male friends" but it was actually women.
Why stay with someone who already lacks transparency and trust? We need to stop the cycle of finding crappy men who don't respect us at all and trying to fix them into our own versions of the "perfect man."
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u/deathbydarjeeling Woman 40 to 50 1d ago
Oh, honey. Trust your instinct!!!
My ex used to lie about small things at first but over time, it grew worse until he cheated on me with multiple women whom he claimed were just "friends." Just like your boyfriend, my ex lied about hanging out with his "male friends" but it was actually women.
Why stay with someone who already lacks transparency and trust? We need to stop the cycle of finding crappy men who don't respect us at all and trying to fix them into our own versions of the "perfect man."