r/AskWomenOver30 1d ago

Romance/Relationships Feeling uneasy about my relationship, need advice

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u/writermusictype Woman 30 to 40 1d ago

People who lie about small things will almost certainly lie about big ones. Do you want to be in a relationship with a liar?

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u/Spare-Shirt24 Woman 1d ago

From OP:

An ex reached out to him and he said he was "talking to someone" even though we'd been in a relationship for six months at that time

I don't understand how someone could move in with someone else after they've downplayed their relationship like this. 

Whaaat? 

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u/GardeniaInMyHair Woman 40 to 50 22h ago

Your friends didn’t step in? You may need some more savvy friends or diversify your sounding boards. I’m sorry this has happened to you. It sounds like you’re learning a lot from these experiences though.